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For Men Only - Part 1:

a straightforward guide to
the inner lives of
women

By Jeff and
Shaunti
Feldhahn

This book has great research and
insights. We present the Quick Start Guide
today and tomorrow. -
Jim
_________________________________________________

Quick Start
Guide to For Men Only:  a
straightforward guide to the inner lives of
women

Jeff Feldhahn's Note to
the Reader:

This book is about
something guys tend to think of as complex: the
inner workings of women.

But after a year of research and
input from more than 3,000 women - including a
professional national survey - I've seen that they
actually can be understood. We've identified six
key findings about women that explain many of the
mysteries and enable you to love her the way you
want to and be her hero.

Use this quick start guide to get
the big picture now.

Key 1:
Reassurance

Why does
she...?

· Ask,
"Do you love me?" even though you just said "I
love you" this morning?

· Take your need for space as a signal
that you're upset with and trying to get away
from her?

· Want to talk about your
relationship... mostly at those times you least
want to?

Here's why:

· Women have an underlying insecurity
about whether their man really loves
them.

· When that latent insecurity is
triggered, they are often preoccupied with
getting the relationship back on
track.

What to
do:

· Reassure her that you love
her.

· If you need space, say something
that will ease her mind, like, "I need space
right now, but I want you to know that we're
okay."

Key 2:
Emotions

Why does
she...?

· Out of nowhere, bring up
something that happened two years ago?

· Seem to obsess about
something better left alone?

· Get an idea in her head
and fixate on it, even if you've already
explained why it's no big deal?

Here's
why:

· Women have involuntary
emotional "pop-ups" that rise up from the
present of the past.

· Women often can't
"compartmentalize" and just decide not to think
about something that is bothering them.

What to
do:

· Don't say, "Just don't
think about it."  That may be physically
and mentally impossible for most women.

· Help her "close those
windows" by encouraging her to take whatever
action is necessary to resolve her
concern.

Key 3:
Security

Why does
she...?

· Accuse you of "not
caring about her," when you're working long
hours to provide security for her and the
kids?

· Say she wants you around
more, but also seems to want the nice things
that can only come if you have a higher-paying
job?

· Say she doesn't feel
close to you, when you two are married, in the
same house, and sharing the same bed?

Here's
why:

· For a woman, "emotional
security" and closeness are far more important
than financial security.

· For a woman, security
means you will always be there for her and
closeness means you are best friends

What to
do:

· Realize that if she says
she wants you around more, she's probably
willing to downsize your lifestyle if it is
necessary to make that happen.

· Since it's the little
things that build a sense of closeness, one
example is to leave her a 30-second voice mail
during the day just telling her how much you
love her.

· Realize you don't have
to stay in a job you dislike; your wife prefers
you to be happy.

Keys 4 - 6 Tomorrow.

_____________________________________________________

God
bless your marriage and family.

Jim
Stephens

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