100 Ways To Love Your Husband HIS Way - Part 3

By www.marriagemissions.com

A husband considers romance to be one way and the wife considers it to be another. The wife provides many romantic gestures which go unnoticed by her husband, because it wasn't romantic to him. The husband can spend precious time doing what he thinks will bless and romance his wife only to discover she didn't appreciate it at all.

Study your spouse. Find out what romance means to them? It may surprise you!

Discuss the following list with your husband. Ask him to check the ones most meaningful and then arrange them in order of importance to him.

But keep in mind that these are ONLY SUGGESTIONS.

63. Sometimes let him enjoy his day off work without having to "work" at home.

64. Get to the point in your discussions. Spare him details unless he wants them.

65. Discover his sexual needs.

66. Surprise him with a 15 second kiss when he gets home from work.

67. Wink at him from across the room when you're out at a group function.

68. Give him the benefit of the doubt when he mis-speaks.

69. Don't quarrel over words.

70. Be kind and courteous with him. (Don't be kinder to strangers than to him.)

71. When things go wrong, instead of assessing blame, focus on how to do better.

72. As a kindness, don't say, "I told you so."

73. Try not to argue over money. Peacefully discuss future expenditures instead.

74. Take him out on dates-pre-planning all of the details ahead of time.

75. Hold his hand and snuggle up close to him at times both at home and in public.

76. Praise his good decisions; minimize the bad ones.

77. Tell him you love him more often.

78. Put love notes in his pockets and brief case.

79. Sit with him while he's watching TV-even if the program doesn't interest you.

80. Don't expect him to read your mind (despite your thinking he should- extend grace).

81. Periodically, give him time with his family alone.

82. Check with him before you throw away his papers and stuff, when possible.

83. Work to keep yourself in shape in every way it is possible.

84. Let him express himself freely, without fear of being called stupid or illogical.

85. Carefully choose your words. Remember to "speak the truth in LOVE."

86. Don't criticize him in front of others-keeping his dignity intact.

87. Visit his childhood home with him.

88. When you're angry, express it in respectful ways. Don't give the silent treatment.

89. Pray for him.

90. Make him homemade soup when he's sick.

91. Look your best-dress to honor him and make him proud to be seen with you.

92. Support him when someone tries to put him down. Be his best cheer leader.

93. Don't disagree with him in front of the children.

94. Take him for a weekend get-away without the children.

95. Cheer his successes whether in business or in other areas of everyday living.

96. Graciously teach him how to demonstrate his love for you.

97. Give him coupons to redeem-maybe for a back scratch or a shoulder rub.

98. Buy him a gift certificate to his favorite lunch spot and put it in his wallet.

99. Hide notes for him around the house where only he will find them.

100. Thank him for just being himself.

From www.marriagemissions.com