100 Things A Man Can Do To Raise Her Oxytocin - Part 1

 

By Jim Stephens based on John Gray: Why Mars and Venus Collide
 
The little things make all the difference for women.
 
The following list of suggestions for men will give them some ideas of how they can promote oxytocin production in their partners. They are in no particular order.
 
If he does one or two of these things, he'll see a change in his partner right away.
 
Women love to be treasured.
 
The more he does the little things, the more fun they will have as a couple. The glow will return, and he will have accomplished it. 

 

Suggestions 1 to 50.
 
  1. Make her coffee or tea in the morning-especially on weekends.
  2. Leave her a note saying you love her.
  3. Give her a single long-stemmed rose.
  4. Notice her new blouse.
  5. Open doors for her.
  6. Plan a surprise picnic.
  7. Suggest going for a walk.
  8. Tell her she looks as beautiful as the day you met.
  9. Hug her when you get up.
 10. Hug her when you leave.
 11. Hug her when you return.
 12. Hug her before you go to sleep.
 13. Empty the dishwasher without being asked.
 14. Notice and compliment her when she's been to the hairstylist.
 15. Open the car door for her-at least when you are going out.
 16. Get tickets to a concert or play she wants to see.
 17. Take a ballroom dancing class together.
 18. Go dancing with friends.
 19. Encourage her to see chick flicks with friends.
 20. Hire a personal trainer and work out together.
 21. Build a fire on a rainy day.
 22. Make a small flower garden for her.
 23. Give her a windowsill herb garden.
 24. Offer to help doing a tedious job in the kitchen.
 25. Download or make a mix of songs she loves.
 26. Have simultaneous massages.
 27. Learn to give her a massage (without expectations of sex).
 28. Massage her feet when she is tired.
 29. Give her a gift subscription to a specialty magazine.
 30. Take her to a craft show.
 31. Give her a framed picture of both of you together for her desk.
 32. Take new pictures of her for your desk.
 33. Surprise her with baked goods or fruit salad for a weekend breakfast.
 34. Pull out her dinner chair at home and in restaurants and give her the best view.
 35. Give her a selection of exotic coffees and teas.
 36. Take her car for a car wash or wash it yourself.
 37. Wash the pots and pans after a meal and put them away.
 38. Give her a gift certificate for a manicure.
 39. Give her sexy lingerie.
 40. Take her to a flea market.
 41. Ask if she needs you to pick something up on the way home.
 42. Offer to do the marketing.
 43. Help put away the groceries.
 44. Tell her you love her.
 45. Take her out for an ice cream cone on a summer evening.
 46. Give her the new novel by her favorite author.
 47. Offer to fold the laundry.
 48. Get a small TV or radio for the kitchen.
 49. Give her a selection of aromatherapy essences for relaxation.
 50. Offer to drop off or pick up the dry cleaning.
 
You can undoubtedly come up with many more feel-good activities on your own.

 

Guys need to understand how vitally important this is to a woman so they'll take it seriously.   
 
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