100 Things A Man Can Do To Raise Her Oxytocin - Part 2

 

By Jim Stephens based on John Gray: Why Mars and Venus Collide
 
The little things make all the difference for women.
 
The following list of suggestions for men will give them some ideas of how they can promote oxytocin production in their partners. They are in no particular order.
 
If he does one or two of these things, he'll see a change in his partner right away. Believe me, these don't work on a man, so don't even think about them from your own point of view. A man has to experiment with the unknown in this case and then observe the results.
 
Women love to be treasured.
 
The more he does the little things, the more fun they will have as a couple. The glow will return, and he will have accomplished it. 

 

Suggestions 1 to 50.
 
 51. Take a bike ride with her.
 52. Rent romantic comedies on DVD.
 53. Make breakfast in bed for her with the children.
 54. Set the table if she is making dinner.
 55. Send her an e-mail saying you miss her.
 56. Take her sailing, canoeing, or rowing.
 57. Put your socks in the hamper.
 58. Take her to a museum (after getting a good night's sleep).
 59. Suggest taking her parents out to dinner.
 60. Give her beautiful guest soaps.
 61. Play tennis together.
 62. Make the bed every now and then.
 63. Frame a number of vacation photos or do an online album.
 64. Edit a birthday video for each of your children.
 65. Go fishing together.
 66. Start a charm bracelet with charms for special events or travel.
 67. Take her to a dog show.
 68. Give her a meditation tape.
 69. Ask about her day with specific references.
 70. Compliment her on her wonderful taste.
 71. Make a lunch date with her.
 72. Replace a burned-out lightbulb without being asked.
 73. Pick up around the house when guests are coming.
 74. Take her apple or berry picking.
 75. Have a regular date.
 76. Take her for a spontaneous ride in the country.
 77. Hold her hand in the movies (not the whole time).
 78. Thank her for loving you.
 79. Play cards with other couples.
 80. Compliment her on her cooking.
 81. Listen to the answering machine and write down messages.
 82. Take her to a fair.
 83. Toast her before dinner, no matter what you are drinking.
 84. Surprise her with a long-lasting orchid plant.
 85. Compliment her for handling so much so well.
 86. Get an audio book for a long car trip.
 87. Periodically get rid of your personal pile of stuff next to the bed.
 88. Join a reading group or Internet seminar with her.
 89. Offer to start a dream trip fund.
 90. Give her luxurious bath oils and salts.
 91. TiVo her favorite shows if she is working late.
 92. Give her greeting cards or personal notes for special occasions.
 93. Compliment her on the beautiful home she has created.
 94. Be responsible for one dinner a week.
 95. Go on a hike in a nature preserve.
 96. Tell her she looks beautiful when she gets out of the shower.
 97. Take her to an art gallery.
 98. Give her a gift certificate for a facial.
 99. Ask her for a list of handyman chores you can do for her during the month.
100. Offer to get your guests beverages when you entertain.
 
You can undoubtedly come up with many more feel-good activities on your own.

 

Guys need to understand how vitally important this is to a woman so they'll take it seriously.   
 
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