Here is a very simple tip that is very easy to apply, but can make a world of difference.

Communicating About Daily Life

Questions become an important stimulus to communication.
 
If the husband comes home and wife does not ask, "How did things go?" perhaps she is communicating, "I don't care how things went."
 
If a husband never inquires about the wife's experiences, she may feel rejected and unloved.
 
Asking questions about the day-to-day events is the easiest and best place to begin.

If you are afraid that such questions will fill up your whole evening and allow you no time for other interests, then set limits. "Tell me three things that happened in your life today and how you feel about them?" is a request with limits. It won't take all night, but it will give you more information than many couples are sharing each day.

If each of you share three things that happened today and how you feel about them, you are on the road to good communication.

Bring the children in on the act. Let them share three things. They need to learn to communicate also. Who knows, someday, they may get married!
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Today's  content has been written by Dr. Gary Chapman and is based on the book Dr. Gary Chapman On the Marriage You've Always Wanted.