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Here's a good article to ponder. I'm sure you can imagine lots and lots of ramifications of this one. Valentine's Day is fast approaching so in order to better prepare, this article might help release some old suppressed emotions. Jim |
How Men Behave In The Heat Of Battle
By Mark Gungor
Men are created to be warriors and when a warrior is in combat, he looks for the most vulnerable place and attacks there.
For example, if I am taking on another dude in a tennis match I watch him and look for his weaknesses. Say it's a back hand in the far left corner that he is having trouble returning. Guess where I am going to hit the ball? I'll play to his most vulnerable place because I want to beat him and destroy him.
The same thing can be happen in an argument. A man can say hurtful things that he doesn't even mean when he is pressed into "hurt and win" mode.
Then the wife will think that somehow that one phrase spoken in the heat of battle is "the truth" that tells her what he really thinks and who he really is.
That's just not the case.
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God bless your family and your marriage.
Jim Stephens |
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