20 Suggestions Concerning Sex For Husbands From Wives - Part 1

From Gary Chapman

Some may wish life were like Hollywood, where beautiful stars with perfect bodies mate on-screen with total passion and no problems. God, however, in His infinite wisdom, gave us His gift of sex to create children, to provide pleasure, and to bring husband and wife closer together in the intimate bond of marriage. He intends the two of you to spend a lifetime exploring one another physically, spiritually, intellectually, and emotionally. That does not mean there will be no adjustment or no challenges! But because it is God's best for you, the journey toward intimacy is well worth the commitment.

How to Make Sexual Relations More Meaningful. Points suggested by wives for husbands.

 1. Show more affection and attention throughout the day; come in after work and kiss my neck.

 2. Spend more time in foreplay; love, play, and romantic remarks are important.

 3. Encourage the sex act at various times, rather than always at night when we're tired.

 4. Be more sympathetic when I am really sick.

 5. Be the aggressive one instead of waiting for me to make the first move.

 6. Accept me as I am; accept me even when you see the worst side of me.

 7. Tell me that you love me at times other than when we are in bed; phone sometimes just to say "I love you!" Do not be ashamed to say "I love you" in front of others.

 8. While I am showering, find soft music on the radio.

 9. Honor Christ as the Head of the home.

10. Be sweet and loving at least one hour before initiating sex.