20 Suggestions Concerning Sex For Husbands From Wives - Part 2

From Gary Chapman

Some may wish life were like Hollywood, with total passion and no problems. God, however, in His infinite wisdom, gave us His gift of sex to create children, to provide pleasure, and to bring husband and wife closer together in the intimate bond of marriage. He intends the two of you to spend a lifetime exploring one another physically, spiritually, intellectually, and emotionally. That does not mean there will be no adjustment or no challenges! But because it is God's best for you, the journey toward intimacy is well worth the commitment.

How to Make Sexual Relations More Meaningful. Points suggested by wives for husbands.

11. Help me to feel I am sexually and romantically attractive by complimenting me often.

12. Tell me what you enjoy and when you are excited; express your desires more openly; share yourself more fully with me.

13. Try not to ejaculate so soon.

14. Pray with me about the problems and victories you are having; let me express my own needs to you.

15. Appreciate the beauty of nature and share this appreciation with me.

16. Take more of the responsibility for getting the children settled so that I can relax and share more of the evening with you.

17. Be patient with me; do not ridicule my slowness to reach climax.

18. Do not approach lovemaking as a ritualistic activity; make each time a new experience. Do not let lovemaking get boring by doing the same things over and over; try new things or new places.

19. Never try to make love with me when you are harboring negative feelings toward me or you know things are not right; let there be harmony between us so that sexual intercourse can indeed be an act of love.

20. Think of something nice to say about me in front of others occasionally.