20 Suggestions Concerning Sex For Wives From Husbands - Part 1

From Gary Chapman

Some may wish life were like Hollywood, where beautiful stars with perfect bodies mate on-screen with total passion and no problems. God, however, in His infinite wisdom, gave us His gift of sex to create children, to provide pleasure, and to bring husband and wife closer together in the intimate bond of marriage. He intends the two of you to spend a lifetime exploring one another physically, spiritually, intellectually, and emotionally. That does not mean there will be no adjustment or no challenges! But because it is God's best for you, the journey toward intimacy is well worth the commitment.

How to Make Sexual Relations More Meaningful. Points suggested by husbands for wives.

1. Be aggressive occasionally.

2. Be innovative and imaginative.

3. Do not be ashamed to show that you are enjoying it.

4. Be attractive at bedtime. Wear something besides "granny" gowns and everyday pajamas.

5. Do things to catch my attention; men are easily excited by sight.

6. Communicate more openly about sex; communicate readiness for the actual act once foreplay has excited sufficiently.

7. Go to bed earlier.

8. Do not make me feel guilty at night for my inconsistencies during the day (not being affectionate enough, and so on).

9. Prolong the sexual relationship at times.

10. Be more aware of my needs and desires as a man.