20 Suggestions Concerning Sex For Wives From Husbands - Part 2 

From Gary Chapman

Some may wish life were like Hollywood, where beautiful stars with perfect bodies mate on-screen with total passion and no problems. God, however, in His infinite wisdom, gave us His gift of sex to create children, to provide pleasure, and to bring husband and wife closer together in the intimate bond of marriage. He intends the two of you to spend a lifetime exploring one another physically, spiritually, intellectually, and emotionally. That does not mean there will be no adjustment or no challenges! But because it is God's best for you, the journey toward intimacy is well worth the commitment.

How to Make Sexual Relations More Meaningful. Points suggested by husbands for wives.

11. Participate more fully and freely in the sexual act; be more submissive and open.

12. Allow variety in the time for the sexual act (not always at night).

13. Show more desire, and understand that caressing and foreplay are as important to me as they are to you.

14. Do not allow yourself to remain upset over every day events that go wrong.

15. Relax together at least once a week.

16. Do not always play "hard to get."

17. Clear your mind of daily things (today's and tomorrow's) and think about the matter at hand-love.

18. Do not try to fake enjoyment.

19. Do not try to punish me by denying me sex or by giving it grudgingly.

20. Treat me like your lover.