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Love Notes Made Easy - Part 3
 
By Jim Stephens with help from Sheri & Bob Stritof

June 3, 2011                                                                                                Issue 667    

 

Summary of this article
 
I'll be on my vacation for a few days, but I have prepared some Tips for you that should get your creative juices flowing.
  
"Love Notes" to your spouse are a 5 minute effort that can be a life changer. Buy a pack of note cards, inspirational cards, 3 x 5 cards, or just a pad of plain paper.
  
Pick a regular time once a week when you will write the note. Then hang onto it for a random amount of time. Surprise is part of the fun. Hide it in a place that is unique each time but will surely be found.  
  
Before writing I suggest you put your hand on your heart. (Just learned about this recently.) This helps you tap into your deepest feelings for your spouse. Write the note. Here are some suggestions for what the content could be:
  
* Expressing Love
* Offering Respect
* Gratitude or Thanks for ...
* Appreciation for ...
* Affirmation of ...
* An Apology for ...
* A Joke
* An Inspiration
* A dream or goal
* Your Choice
  
Try it, you'll like it.

Jim   

Where To Leave Love Notes

 

By Sheri & Bob Stritof, About.com

 

It appears that the most popular places to leave love notes is somewhere in your kitchen or bathroom.

 

Regardless of where you leave or hide a love note for your spouse to find, writing the note and taking time to find a unique place for it says loudly that you are still very much in love with your spouse.

 

Here are room-by-room suggestions for where to leave love notes for your spouse to find. Contributions from many friends and writers.

 

Where to Leave Love Notes - - Bedroom

 

· I like to write an uplifting sentence or something as simple as "smile" or "I love you" on small pieces of paper (I usually write a bunch on a 8.5x11 sheet of paper and then tear it into 10 strips) and I leave those notes in pants pockets, shirt pockets, coat pockets, pin them inside a shirt or work uniform, etc. Some he will find right away (that week) and then some he may find months later -- it's always a nice surprise to let him know I am thinking of him.

 

· Sometimes I would get those snap clothes pins and write little notes, fold them and then attach them to the back of her clothing.

 

· I think leaving a love note in your loved one's travel bag would be a good place to put one before they travel. You know somewhere near the toothbrush or comb. Maybe tuck away in a pair of socks.

 

· I put a love note in my husband's sock. It was a great surprise!

 

· In the cooler/colder months, I like placing the notes in the pocket of his jacket where he puts his keys at night. In the morning when he's ready to start his car, he will find my love letter in that pocket and he has told me several times that it has made his day!

 

· Inside his jean's front pocket, where he leaves his money. He will reach in to purchase his lunch at work and find my note.

 

· In his suit case ...it's always a nice surprise especially when he is on the road. 

 

· I stuck an "I love you" sticker under the bill of my husband's ball cap and he noticed it there later at work. =)

 

· Add your own ideas

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God bless your marriage and your family. 

 

Jim 

 

 

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