100 Ways To Show Love To Your Wife HER Way - Part 2

By www.marriagemissions.com

A husband considers romance to be one way and the wife considers it to be another. The wife provides many romantic gestures which go unnoticed by her husband, because it wasn't romantic to him. The husband can spend precious time doing what he thinks will bless and romance his wife only to discover she didn't appreciate it at all.

What is wrong? Are the gestures extended not romantic or thoughtful? No. Are the recipients ungrateful and self-absorbed? No. The spouse is simply not romancing their spouse in a way that is romantic to them!

Discuss the following list with your wife. Ask her to check the ones most meaningful and then arrange them in order of importance to her.

But keep in mind that these are ONLY SUGGESTIONS - not all or any of them have to be used.

26. Be polite, courteous, and mannerly with her-not taking her for granted.

27. Exhibit humility, admit your mistakes, and ask for forgiveness. She'll appreciate that!

28. Defend her to others-especially to your family.

29. Don't belittle her intelligence.

30. Scratch her back, rub her feet, or her rub her neck-whatever she'd prefer.

31. Get up in the middle of the night (let her stay in bed) to take care of your upset child.

32. Be especially helpful when she is not feeling well.

33. When she asks how your day went, don't just say "fine" -actually give her details.

34. Thank God for her by name when the two of you are praying together.

35. Try not to argue over money. Peacefully discuss future expenditures instead.

36. Don't embarrass her by arguing with her in front of others.

37. Lead your family in their spiritual relationship with God. This is important to her.

38. Make eye contact when she is talking to you and when you are talking with her.

39. Show her that you prefer her to others-give her your attention whenever possible.

40. Relate what happened at work or whatever you did apart from her.

41. Keep away from anything that gives you sexual gratification, other than your wife.

42. Be helpful, both before and during the time you have visitors in your home. (If you're not sure of what to do, ask your wife "What can I do that would help the most?")

43. Brag about her to others, both in front of her and when she is not with you.

44. Surprise her from time-to-time with a card and flowers or a little gift.

45. Remember to tell her or call her as soon as you know you are going to be late.

46. Give her your undivided attention when she wants to talk.

47. Guard your tongue from saying "unwholesome words" or down-grading her.

48. Refuse to compare her unfavorably with others.

49. Encourage her to relax in some way while you clean up after dinner.

50. Be an involved partner in helping with the children and spending time together.

51. Maintain good grooming habits so you look and smell good. It shows you care.

52. Be supportive. Help her to finish her education and goals that are important to her.

53. View and treat her as if God put a sign over her that said, "Make me feel special."

54. Run errands without complaining.

55. Give her the love gift of being thoughtful and considerate to her relatives.

56. Don't negatively compare her relatives with yours.

57. Sit close to her -even when you are just watching television.

58. Be verbally supportive and honor her in front of the children.

59. Do not making plans without her agreeing with them (unless it's a surprise).

60. Pro-actively do things that makes her feel cherished as a woman and as a wife.