8 Dynamics To Avoid In A Relationship

By Jaustin

"I'm sure other couples do this." That's what goes through a lot of men and women's heads when there is a dynamic in their relationship that they sometimes wonder, "Is this bad?" when they already know the answer to the question.

But when you don't want to be out on the singles scene again, you would be surprised what people will allow themselves to deal with in a relationship. You can tell yourself, "this is normal, but there are some things that should never be justified: like the following.

No Judgment

Your partner makes a decision you find unethical - he won't go see his father in the hospital, he is embezzling a little money from work, he is lying to someone in a way that will negatively affect them - and you just swallow your thoughts. You tell yourself "that is not a part of our relationship, so it is not my business or my problem."

But yes, it's your business and will eventually be your problem.

Some women think that all that matters is how a man behaves towards them, but how he treats the rest of the world - his family, his co-workers, a server at a restaurant - does not affect her. Trust me, those behaviors are indicative of issues he has that will eventually affect you. He will lie, be rude to and hurt you one day, too.

Yelling

Okay, it happens sometimes. But it's astounding how many couples think that frequent - maybe daily - yelling is normal.

They assume that everyone yells. But guess what? They don't. There are in fact countless happy, yell-free relationships out there.

If you look back at the past month of your relationship and have a significant number of memories of yelling at one another, or even just your partner yelling at you, I hate to say it, but...that relationship has gone rotten.