Practical Suggestions From The Five Love Languages - 2
By Gary Chapman
Words of Appreciation
Buy a pack of sticky notes. Leave at least one encouraging note a day where your loved one will notice. Comment on something you appreciate about them, something they did, or in relation to who they are. The more specific the message the better.
Acts of Service
Next time you notice your loved one doing a particular chore or task, simply ask them what can you do to help. Even if they say no or not right now, the offer alone will mean the world.
Receiving Gifts
Think of the most meaningful songs shared between you and your loved one. Search for the music videos of these songs and then add them to a public playlist you create on your YouTube account. Send an email or card containing the link inviting them to watch. Let them know you were thinking about them. The thoughtfulness - not dollar amount - will make this gift super special.
Quality Time
Is there a local art museum in your city or town? If so, plan a visit with your loved one. Ask questions about how they feel and what they notice about the various works of art. Let their answers guide your conversation.
Physical Touch
Ladies, if your husband's love language is Physical Touch, even small touches stir his love tank. Pick up a game of TwisterŽ and stash it away where he won't find it. Then when you are alone and want to fire up the romance, challenge your husband to a winner "takes all" championship game or maybe a best of three. Add a little playfulness with your attire, a scent that drives him wild, and an atmosphere that doesn't distract. Don't forget to boast about how you are going to win!
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