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Everybody Loves A Compliment
 
by Steve Stephens
 
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Today's Tip comes from some practical rules and tools for marriage out of the book 20 (Surprisingly Simple) Rules and Tools for a Great Marriage by Dr. Steve Stephens (no relation).
 
Jim Stephens
Everybody Loves A Compliment
 
by Dr. Steve Stephens

 
Mark Twain once said that he could live a full month on nothing but a single compliment.
 
While we all enjoy receiving a compliment, most of us aren't very good at giving them.
 
If you're looking for a way to improve your marriage, you can start with a compliment. 
 
There are different types of compliments. While each type is appreciated, some will be more treasured than others.
 
One type is a compliment of possession. One might say, "What an incredible car," or "I love your earrings." These compliments, though a bit superficial, provide a good place to start if you aren't used to complimenting your spouse.
 
Second, there are compliments of appearance. "You look wonderful," or "That shirt really shows off your eyes." We all like to be complimented on our appearance, but it's common to receive this kind of affirmation more from friends and relatives than from our partner. This is sad, because we most want and even need this appreciation from our spouse.
 
A third type of compliment is related to behavior. Your spouse does a lot that deserves your appreciation. Most people like to be recognized for a job well done. 
 
The fourth type of compliment is the most powerful of all. This is the compliment of character. Compliments of character - such as kindness, courage, responsibility, or wisdom - may be the best, but any compliment is good.
 
Make a list of sincere and personal compliments for your spouse, then every day offer at least one. 
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God bless your marriage and family.
 
Jim Stephens
 

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