Suggestions For Happiness In Marriage
By Sheri & Bob Stritof, About.com Guides
Don't Depend on Being Married to Bring You Happiness
One of the myths about marriage is that marriage will make you happy. That's not true. Marriage alone cannot bring you happiness.
A Happy Marriage Comes From Within
Your happiness both as an individual and as a married partner must come from within yourself. Being married can add to your happiness and health, but marriage is not and can not be the primary source of your happiness.
A Few Suggestions for Creating a Happier You and a Happy Marriage
· Like yourself.
· Be yourself.
· Be nice to one another.
· Show mutual respect.
· Be supportive of each other.
· Agree to have fair fights.
· Each evening, share with one another three happy things that you noticed during the day. Talk about why these moments of happiness occurred. What you focus on, you'll get more of.
· Both of you write down how you want to be remembered. Talk with your spouse about how the way you are living your lives helps or takes away from what's important to you both.
· Make a list of things that make you happy such as a sunny day, a hot bath, a child's laugh. Create ways to include these happy times in your life more often.
· Do a random act of kindness not only for a stranger each day, but also for one another. Don't talk about these acts of kindness with one another. They are for your own personal self-esteem and growth.
· Figure out how to fulfill your own emotional needs.
· Compliment and affirm your spouse.
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God bless your marriage and your family.
Jim