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Top 10 Things Husbands Want
From Their Wives
 
By Sheri & Bob Stritof
 
November 17, 2011                                                                             Issue 834    

  

Summary of this article

 

Here is a great list that the Stritof's have compiled from a lot of research into marriage enrichment programs. Not every man wants every one and obviously he'll want some more than others. However, it would probably be a great conversation if you go over the list together and discuss it. Most couples don't discuss this type of ideas very often.

 

Tomorrow we'll have a list of what wives want from husbands.  

 

God bless your family and your marriage.

 

Jim   
 

Top 10 Things Husbands Want From Their Wives

 

By Sheri & Bob Stritof, About.com Guides

 

In no particular order, here are ten things that many husbands often want from their wives.

 

Note that these are "wants" -- not emotional needs. As individuals, we are each responsible for filling our own emotional needs.

We believe that the four basic emotional needs are the need to be loved and to love; the need to belong; the need for a good self-image; and the need for autonomy.

 

What Men Want From Their Wives

 

1. Believe in His Capabilities

 

Many men believe it is important for them to protect and provide for those they love. Let him know that you believe in his talents and skills and are supportive of him.

 

2. Understanding

 

One of the ways you can both tell and show your husband that you want to understand him is by making a commitment to daily dialogue with him. Daily dialogue only takes 20 minutes out of your day. Isn't your husband worth 20 minutes each day?

 

3. Affirmation of His Accomplishments

 

Most guys like to be patted on the back. Compliment your husband often. Just don't over do it with sicky sweet oozes of how great he is. That type of affirmation will backfire.

 

4. Acceptance

 

Many husbands are hurt and angered when their wives try to change them. Realize that the only person that you can change is yourself.

 

5. Less Chatter

 

If your husband is tired, or involved with a project, and you really want to talk to him about something, get to the point. If he wants the details of the topic, he will ask for them.

 

6. Affection

 

Hold your husband's hand in public, leave a message of love on his voice mail, massage his shoulders, give him an unexpected kiss. Men like to be romanced too!

 

7. Respect

 

Show respect for your husband by not making negative comments about his thoughts and opinions, by being considerate of his plans, and by avoiding the "eye roll" when listening to him.

 

8. Free Time

 

Most everyone has a desire for some quiet time alone, and time to re-energize, regroup, and reconnect. When your husband first gets home from work, allow him some free time to unwind. Don't over-schedule his days off with projects around the house.

 

9. Trust

 

Trust is vital in the success of a marriage. If you are having doubts about your husband and find it difficult to trust him, seek counseling and not spying.

 

10. To Be a Companion

 

Hopefully, you can say that your husband is not only your lover, but also your friend. Staying friends and companions through the years requires that you find ways to make time together and to do things together.

 

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