This [article] will discuss the four major needs of a woman and the ways they are met. A woman's four basic needs are security, affection, open communication, and leadership.

 

3. A Husband Must Communicate His Faithfulness. 
 
Whistling at pretty girls walking down the street is understandable for teenage boys, but it is inexcusable for a married man. Jesus said that if a man even looks upon a woman with desire for her in his heart, it is the same as adultery. Adultery is not simply a physical act; it is an attitude.
 
Many men have never slept with a woman outside of marriage; nevertheless, they may carry a spirit of unfaithfulness. Women can pick up on this immediately, and it makes them insecure. 
 
A man's heart must remain faithful, not just when his wife is present, but also when she is absent. You need to communicate regularly to your wife that she is the only one you desire. You must convince her that she is the most beautiful woman in the world to you.
 
Unfaithfulness also is communicated by comparing your wife with other women. This is the kiss of death. Whenever you compare your wife's anatomy, behavior, intelligence or cooking to those of another woman -especially your mother -you have made a big mistake. The only time to compare your wife with another woman is when you are complimenting her.
 
Another no-no is to habitually watch other women through magazines, television shows, movies or real life. Although you may think it is harmless, it isn't. It's the same as your wife looking at or talking about other men all of the time. It is dishonoring and sinful. In any relationship where one person is out of control in an area, the other person normally will compensate.
 
Men want their wives to be sexually responsive. Did you know that a dirty movie or other pornographic material is the very worst thing to use in an attempt to make a woman sexually responsive? When a woman feels you are looking at other women or have other problems with unfaithfulness, she will instinctively withdraw from sex to compensate for your problem.
 
When you demonstrate sexual purity and restraint outside the bedroom, your wife can be free and responsive in the bedroom. Your purity will provide the security she needs to actually blossom.
 
Also, a husband should never threaten to divorce his wife. Don't even talk about divorce. Lose the word. Many married people discuss divorce as a threat to get the other spouse's attention. The only one to profit from such threats is the devil. He loves divorce because it damages God's creation so terribly. So, when divorce is even a remote possibility in your mind, the devil works overtime to make it a reality. Also, your wife will become insecure if you talk about it, especially if you use it to manipulate or scare her.

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