When A Woman Is Stressed, She Loses Her Sense Of Timing
By John Gray
Women under stress may be guilty of trying to talk about feelings at all the wrong times.
Women often sabotage their success in relationships by bringing up their feelings at inappropriate times.
Single and married women will do the same thing.
A woman will unconsciously start arguments or express complaints about something just to find a way to release her feelings which may be about something else entirely.
If something goes wrong, she will happily discuss it in great detail just to talk about her feelings.
Women on a date will complain too much...just to make conversation. She may be distressed about her job, but when he takes her out on a date, she talks about how bad the food is or what a mistake it was to eat out.
He could simply ask her to pick up something at the cleaners, and she bursts into a description of how much she has to do when a simple "I'm too busy" would suffice.
Women can go on and on when a simple "no" is more than enough information.
Going on and on is her misguided attempt to stimulate oxytocin production to release stress.
Men don't know this.
The timing in which a woman chooses to express her feelings affects whether a man is capable of listening. Timing is everything in life and in communication.
When a woman is stressed at home, she loses her sense of timing.